Tuesday, March 14, 2006

My dark, sordid past catches up with me....again

Today my dear friend, Jamie, informed me of a current situation which used to happen frequently in the past...

Apparently, her friend, lets call her Miss Immature, upon coming across my picture in friendster, asked Jamie how she got to know me. Even though Jamie hinted of our close relationship, Miss Immature went on to mention that her current boyfriend used to be my boyfriend and how I apparently have slept with 30-over guys before I was with him. I went to investigate the said ex-bf.

After scrolling through all 38 of her friendster pictures, i concluded who the big-mouth bastard was. Let's call him The Sore Loser. To cut a long story short, it was a bad breakup where he was on the sad end. So sorry. But that doesn't give him the reason to deflame me and make false accusations just because he was hurt. If everyone behaved like the Sore Loser, the world would be a sad sad place to live in. And Miss Immature, I don't blame you, cause I know you are jealous of me. Being as wonderful as I am has its bad times. As we are both women, we should stick together. I forgive you.


That reminds me of the time when he bought me flowers throught the Internet from Australia[long-distance relationship], and kept telling every living thing that he personally called Holland to order that particular color of roses and chose the wrapping and all...dropping multiple hints that it cost almost $400 just for that puny bouquet to reach me; until i found out that it cost only $50, all ready-wrapped, inclusive of delivery... I mean, how boastful can a person get? I feel its the thought lor, and not the cost....so Sore Loser, remember you dun have to pretend. I'm pretty sure Miss Immature likes you the way you are, no matter how short and hao lian and da pao you are. You two probably are made for each other.

I really dun understand why am I always a target board for bad gossip, even though whatever I do is what everyoen else is also doing. I am quite tired of all this rumors and digging up of old stories. So what if I have had a lot of boyfriends in the past? At least I dun sleep around lor. Maybe I'm too direct when breaking up, but i believe in being frank lor, what's the point of lying and beating around the bush?

Can't you all just find someone else to talk about for once?


p.s I want my friends to know that the accusation is NOT TRUE. Of course, if you were close to me, you'd know. I will make no excuses for myself, nor deny that I was not a flirt in my younger days, but I was most certainly not a slut. Thank God for the people who believed and stood by my side through the tough times. And thanks, Jamie Dear.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hey,

People should never judge you just from some "sore loser's" when they do not even know you. When they get to know you as a person and have more meaningful conversations with you, that's when they will realise what a wonderful person you are. Be brave.

Stranger